Unraveling Life’s Wisdom

From Buddhist retreats to ordinary days, these are the truths I carry: life is motion, choices ripple outward, and what matters most is how we walk.

OBSERVATIONS

Kristal Duval

9/18/20231 min read

man in orange robe walking on beach during daytime
man in orange robe walking on beach during daytime

Life has a way of teaching us in unexpected ways. Sometimes it’s a quiet moment, sometimes a sudden shift — but each one leaves its mark, weaving itself into the fabric of who we are. For me, the calm corners of a Buddhist retreat whispered some of the most profound lessons I carry with me. Looking back, a few still echo in the everyday hum of life:

  • The Dance of Change
    It’s wild to realize that nearly every cell in our body is replaced every seven years. By the age of 20, you’ve already been reborn three times. It’s a gentle reminder that nothing is ever still. Life — from England’s autumn blaze to California’s sunlit shores — is always in motion. Love, pain, joy, even the moments we wish we could hold forever, are all fleeting, dancing to time’s rhythm.

  • Genuine Footprints
    Beyond the labels we carry — of faith, philosophy, or identity — what truly matters is where we stand and how we walk. Beliefs may clash, but in the end, it’s not what we claim to be that defines us, but the footprints we leave behind.

  • Echoes of Choices
    Everything we do, even the words we never say, ripple outward. From the choices in the grocery aisle to the kindness we show (or withhold) in passing, our lives are stories that circle back to us in ways we don’t always expect.

Some may call these lessons age-old wisdom on repeat. And maybe they are. But for me, each one feels like a favorite song — familiar, yet deeply personal. What lingers isn’t the applause or the curated images, but the sunsets I missed or the sting of a careless word.

At the crossroads of it all, I don’t want to be remembered as invincible. I hope to be remembered for laughing loudly, loving deeply, and walking this journey with an honest, beating heart.